Just Here

The last few weeks have been crazy. We had a good trip to Phoenix and got to spend alone time with my husband and no kids. We enjoyed  the visiting with some friends. I think that I enjoyed watching the football game of there son,which they won. I just forgot how it was to be the two of us, which was nice, but at the same time I missed the kids and was happy to get home and see them and show them what we got them from our trip. I just have so much that I want to do and see and it is time to start doing the things we want to do.

Happy Birthday Hubby

31 years ago my husband was brought into this world. He is the love of my life, he is the only one I know that has stood by me during the good and bad and given me unconditional support and love. He had many opportunities to bail on me and our marriage, but he never thought of doing that instead he just loved me unconditional and gave me all the support I needed, he over looked my down falls and just loved me. I don't know what I would do with out him. We have been blessed with two wonderful children that I would not trade for anything in the world. He is everything to me and I just don't know what I would do if he was taken away from me I don't think I would survive it. I love Tim with all my heart and I have enjoyed the ten years we have been married and can't wait to see what the next ten years bring us.

High Life

Today I am sitting here on the couch watching one of my favorite shows and I just start thinking about random things in life and was thought of some questions.  I am here raising my kids the best way I can and pray they turn out to be good adult and be productive to there community,but there are things we never prepare for the those are the things that come across my mind when I see something about them on the TV and then I think what can you do to prepare and keep your kids safe, granted the situation may not happen but what do you do to keep your kids safe. Like these pervs that stalk kids for there sick sexual fulfillment's. So how do you protect your kids from this we can talk about it but our kids our innocent and unsuspecting. The other thing that scare the crap out of me is the probability of some sick kidnapping my kids and killing them. I know we teach our teacher not to talk to strangers but sometimes the evil ones are the ones we know and never suspected them until it too late so how do we teach them to also fear  the people we know I am not sure because then who do they turn or trust, this just is not a good situation. So I guess as parents we have to be picky on who we make friends with and bring into our family and our homes and expose to our children.

I think this is one of the ways as parents we can keep our kids safe from the sick people that lurk about the corner and if we can keep our kids educated on what to watch our for with strangers and  even people we know. So watch your friends and pick them wisely we are there only safety net to keeping them safe.

I love my kids with all my heart and will keep them safe at all cost. My kids are my greatest joy and my biggest pain in the ass, but I would not change if for anything they are my joy.

Time change and misc.

Well I survived working and extra hour since the time change, but I like the time change I have notice that I sleep better and it don't bother me as much as it does the others. We are excited that we are going to Phoenix for a weekend with some really great friends in four days. This is the first time that we will not have any kids with us so it will be interesting to see how we do and react with no kids, I am sure we will be just fine and not have a problem looking for something to do, the funny thing is that I actually look forward to sleeping in with no interruption. happy dance. I can't wait to see my bff Bri I have not seen her in a week and I miss her like crazy as well as her family, they are so entertaining when together. I just can't wait for the fun to begin. I am thankful for her she understands me and accepts me for who I am and knows how to deal with me when I have a freak out and fall to pieces, she knows how to put everything back together she is half of my rock and the my husband is the other half. Bri you are a very wonderful,bright,pretty woman that is my best friend.

Thing you will not buy in the genaric brand

I was sitting here at work discussing what we would not buy in the generic brand and so we came up with a list of things we will not buy generic:

1. Mayo
2. Laundry soap
3. Toilet paper
4. Mac n cheese
5. Dish soap
6. Chef borarde
7. Toothpaste
8. Cereal
9. yogurt
10. Kool-aid
11. Gum
12. Slice cheese
13. Campbell soup
14. Chicken Nuggets
15. Corndogs
16. Popcorn
17. Salsa
18. Steak sauce
19. Pickles
20. Cough drops
21. Sodas
22. Root beer
23. Bread
24. Chocolate milk mix
25. Hot chocolate
26. Gram-crackers
27. Beer
28. Shampoo and Conditioner
29. Whiskey
30. Perfume

This is the combine list of my co-workers that they will not budge on buying theses products.

These days

Today is a cloudy day and Em and I are laying on the couch watching TV and being bums days likes these I just want to be lazy and do nothing. These days are hard for my mood it tends to make me feel sad ,lonely and tired. In six days we will be on our way to have fun in Phoenix with some good friends and no children, this is going to be fun I just can't wait. Well this is a short blog for today since I can't think about what I want to write about.

Parenthood

Ten things you lean about being a parent:

1. You will never have clean clothes, your kids think your their napkin.
2. You never have secrets .
3. You never get to enjoy any of your favorite food or snacks, with out sharing.
4. You never get any peace and quite or time to your self.
5. You never get to take a shower or go to the bathroom by yourself.
6. The days of sleeping in are long gone.
7. You never get to watch your TV shows when they come on.
8. Your house is never clean, know matter how hard you try.
9. Your opinion don't count.
10. You are always the bad guy or mean.

Ten thing that you love about being a parent:

1. When you hear your kids tell you they love you.
2. When they snuggle up with you on the couch.
3. When they think you are the coolest person in the world.
4. The way there face lights up when they see you.
5. When they pick out something that they thing you will like.
6. When they crawl in bed in the middle of the night.
7. When you can scare off the bad things that go bump in the night.
8. When you pick up something special for them and surprise them with it.
9. The hugs and kisses you get from them at anytime or when they go to bed.
10. Watching them grow up and see how they choose there path in life.

children and early morning

Children they can be your greatest joy and you biggest pain in the ass.  Today the oldest is being the pain in the ass. He likes to take his sweet time to get ready and never wants to look for anything ever, but I am not going to help him he will either find his shoes of go bare footed to school his choice.

The older they get the more they find there mouth and figured out to get them selves in trouble with it. They seem to get to big for there britches and let there brain over ride there mouth. Lord have mercy on the parents. I am not looking forward to the teenage year when they find even more hateful vocabulary to tell the parents what they think they feel about us when they don't get there way.

Then next thing I don't get is mornings how is it that when they have to get up and ready for school they don't want to get up until the last possible second and then it is a rush to the finish line, which is school drives me crazy, but when they don't have school they can get up early like it is no problem and want you to be up too and get them everything under the sun, when all you want to do is sleep in.

I love my kids and would not change anything for the world, they are my life and whole world. Even though they can lead you to drink when they do stupid shit, but I think the hardest thing you have to do as a parent is to let them grow up and make there own decision and deal with there own consequences of there actions all we can do is be there and give them the love and support that they need to get through choices good or bad, because they are our children and no one can love them like we can.

I am just starting out my kids our still young and I have a lot more experiences with them as they get older, but even now life still deals us with challenges everyday from the simple task of getting dressed to dealing with bullies at school, or refusing to finish home work, dealing with back talk that they have seen some other kid do to there parents. We just have to pick and choose what is important to teach our kids what is right and wrong ,fair or unfair, but we just have to guild them the best we can and pray that they make the right decision every time as well as assure them that no matter what we are there for them good or bad.

what a day

what a day

The weekend

I had a wonderful time this weekend. I went to see my best friend B, I got the chance to meet her family and they are all awesome. I really enjoyed watching how her boy reacted with my daughter, they talked to her and enterained her while they were there. I also think she has a cruch on the oldest one lol, I just love watching her give him all her attention when he was not looking it was cute(by the way she only 3) There were other parts of the visit I truly enjoyed but will stay in my mind for the time being or forever. I know I have the bestest friend I could ever ask for she is like me and gets my humor we are peas in a pod.

Ten thoughts of random thoughts going through my head:

1. I am tired and ready for bed.
2. Work is taking forever to be over.
3. My shoulder hurts still.
4. Wiggle, wiggle, wiggle!!!!!!!! still cracks me up
5. Missing people, certain people
6. That was a long drive to get home today.
7. I don't want to go to the doctor.
8. tired,tired,tired!!!!!!!!
9. wiggle, wiggle wiggle wiggle!!!!!!
10. Not enough caffine to keep me a wake

About My hubby

Thursday, October 27, 2011

My Hubby.

Do you know if they have a favorite color?
Blue 
When was the last time your spouse ate a peanut butter and jelly sandwich?
I never seen him eat one so I don't even know if he likes them

Speaking of sandwiches, how does your spouse feel about BLTs?
He will eat it with them but like them rolled up in a tortilla and minus the lettuces and tomatoes.
Revisiting the topic of peanut butter...if your spouse likes PB, do they prefer it chunky or smooth?
smooth
What's your spouse's favorite song?
metellica song don't really know

What concert would your spouse fork out big bucks to sit front row at?
Metellica

What radio station does your spouse listen to most?
His i-touch or Sirius radio

What's your spouse's dream job?
Race car driver NASCAR
Have any movies ever made your spouse cry? Do you know which ones?
No movie, but i am sure he would cry at some of the shows i make him watch,due to not liking them. lol
What kind of burial preferences does your spouse have?
Cremation – but not sure if he will get that unless

He’s sitting in front of the TV, what is on the screen?
NASCAR of any sort, Tin Cup, two in half man, modern family, the middle, ncis and ncis Los angles and any hunting or shooting show

You’re out to eat; what kind of dressing does he get on his salad?
Ranch
What’s one food he doesn’t like?
Brussels sprouts,tomatoes,

You go out to eat and have a drink. What does he order?
Iced Tea –with sweet n low
Where did he go to high school?
Farmington HS 
What size shoe does he wear?
9.5 to 10 narrow foot
If he was to collect anything, what would it be?
jet skis,boats,four wheeler,motorcycles
What is his favorite cereal?
never really eats cereal
What is something you do that he wishes you wouldn’t do?
not plan things
You make him a cake for his birthday; what kind of cake?
white cake with butter cream frosting
Did he play sports in high school?
Yes, football and track
What could he spend hours doing?
Looks at boats on eBay, read B blogs,face book

 

inspired by my bff B

just random things

Tim was impressed with the list I created about him and had some comments about some of mine like always. I am less than 24 hours before I get to see my best friend and hang out for the weekend. I am racking my brain on what things i still need to pack for the trip, but i will always forget something that is just my normal so hope it is something not too important. I am so tired and need a nap my sleep was not so great at all, but that is the normal and i wonder if it is related to me working nights. I am singing a million different songs in my head trying to get through the day. I want to sit on the beach and drink rum and cokes to my hearts content while i watch all the young stud strut there stuff as i  laugh at how silly they look trying to show off , but at the same time admire the view lol. I want to go on a cruise to any where. I want to go to Las Vegas to see all that I can see. I want another tattoo. I want to go to a spa where I can have a full day of pampering and enjoy the massage yes. I want to sleep one day away and see if it helps. I want to just enjoy my family and friends.

Ten things about Tim and Lesa

Ten things you don't know about Tim:

1. He never like to be late any where.
2. He changes his socks at least twice a day.
3. Chews around his finger nails when he is nervous.
4. He does not like alot of noise at one time sends him batty.
5. He likes shepards pie his mom makes.
6. He is not good at being sick
7. He grinds his teeth while he sleeps
8. He sighs when he is irratated or annoyed.
9. He does not like tomatoes.
10. He loves cabage

Ten things you don't know about Lesa:

1. I love to buy shoes, I am additic to buying shoes.
2. I love to shop ebay if i can get anything for half the price on ebay i am there except for clother unless they are new.
3. I like to read trashy romantice books, love how erotic they can get.
4. I hate folding laundry i can wash it and dry it but folding and putting it away no thank you.
5. I like to take baths before bed that is the only place to get away from everyone and relax.
6. I like to do things on a whem, just pick up and go and see something or do something.
7. I am not a planner I like to just go with the flow of life, maybe I should have been a hippie lol
8. When I don't remember what I am saying to people I always say "and then or uhmm"
9. I love pedi and getting my hair done.
10. I have always wanted to learn how to dance different dances, but I need a dance partner.

Just for thought!!!!!

My question for today is how many does take to feel complete?
In an ideal world it only takes two to complete, but what if it takes four or more. Have you ever just sat down and thought  about how complete you feel as a person,couple,lover and friend. Do you sence that you are missing something.


How do you know if something is Missing?
I guess you don't know until you meet or find what is missing to make you complete in all the catogories ,sometimes it is something that is missing as simple as a long lost friend or a change in lifestyle.

Is it ok to buck the norm or not?
Well  if it makes you happy then it is not wrong you just have different needs and wants in life. If we all were the same what kind of life would that be a boaring one for sure.
I think in todays socity there is a certian standard that is set on how we are suppost to live and be like, but who gave them the right to set that standard. What if that is not the standard or need that you need then what you are the outsider or taboo or in the wrong, how do anyone know or has the right to judge what is the strandard for each person's life. I think reguardless of what people think I  will live by my own trems and standards that make my family life better and happier, they are the  most imprortant people in  the world to me. As long as My family is happy  I am not going to change anything.

My crazy family

Today I felt like i was on some type of adrenal high. I just seemed that I had to deal with issues that seemed to have some sort of affect in my life in certain decision that were in my opinion were not bad at all. I did enjoy visiting and shopping with my sister in law today and just getting out of the house it helped to take my mind off other things that are going on since I get to see my bestie in two days. I am just ready to go and hang out with B and her family as well as see how well her and Em do together during a photo shoot. I am so excited that to see my boys go hunting together and spending some boy time together bonding. To thing about it three generations of Hendricks will be together in one place oh boy. Question: Why do kids tend to drive you crazy when you are already are on the verge of going crazy? Is there such a of being more crazier when you are at your craziest? I need a maid, laundry services, chef and a part time nanny. What a day

Two more days and counting

Well today is very ugly outside it looks like rain. I days like this when I work at night because it just helps me sleep so I want to take a nap right now, but my little tornado will destroy the house.

This week has been the longest week since I have two more days until Em and I take a road trip to see my best friend and her family, Em is excited to see there puppies. I just want Friday to be here now so that we can leave, but then I realize that i have a lot of stuff to do like  finish packing our clothes, getting the oil changed on the jeep and clean the inside and outside of the jeep.

My son is excited about going hunting with his dad,grandpa, and his uncle so a boys hunting trip, so the boys will be busy as well. Tim really wanted to go with me to meet my bff family and hang out he is fascinated about the puppies they raise and is determined to have one one day.

RANDOM THOUGHTS THAT GO THROUGH LESA'S MIND

1. At times my husband and I change roles he acts like the woman and I act like the man with our emotions.

1. I notice that at any time he has doubt he tends to add doubt to me to, drives me crazy.
2. I am my kids personal couch cushion and foot rest.
3. I have and awesome experience that will happen in two days.
4. I have made plenty of mistakes in life and my husband has been there to help me through them, even though he may want to kill me at times.
5. I can be very scary when I become protective of my kids.
6. I have a little streak of walking on the wild side, that's when the stupid things i do comes out.
7. I like feeling like a woman when I get pampered.
8. I dislike it when my husband is wright all the time.
9. I like having my long hair.
10. I would like to have front end loading washer and dryer.
11. I want a Kendal for my birthday.
12. I want to feel like one of the woman in the books I read.
13. I just want to be loved unconditionally, which I am by my husband and kids
14. I laugh at myself when I think of stupid things that I have done or want to do, trust me there are plenty of stupid things I want to do.

The day that my kids stop watching cartoons I will have to do the jig or what dance i can do and not hurt myself. I am noticing that life is starting to turn around slowly but life is good for now and is about to get better. I am truly excited to see what our future holds.

Here's to my new best friend

Well I owe this first blog to my best friend B. She is a very special person in my life. She came down to visit me and my family this last weekend and it was so awesome that we were able to catch up and enjoy our visit.  I am excited to go see her and her family this weekend coming up. I have some plans for her and I to do and she is going to take pictures of my little princess while we are there. I am also planning to cook dinner for her family. I am so happy that we are both in each others lives and don't want anything to change ever. So my next blog will be on how my trip was to St. Johns, AZ to see my best friend and family.