children and early morning

Children they can be your greatest joy and you biggest pain in the ass.  Today the oldest is being the pain in the ass. He likes to take his sweet time to get ready and never wants to look for anything ever, but I am not going to help him he will either find his shoes of go bare footed to school his choice.

The older they get the more they find there mouth and figured out to get them selves in trouble with it. They seem to get to big for there britches and let there brain over ride there mouth. Lord have mercy on the parents. I am not looking forward to the teenage year when they find even more hateful vocabulary to tell the parents what they think they feel about us when they don't get there way.

Then next thing I don't get is mornings how is it that when they have to get up and ready for school they don't want to get up until the last possible second and then it is a rush to the finish line, which is school drives me crazy, but when they don't have school they can get up early like it is no problem and want you to be up too and get them everything under the sun, when all you want to do is sleep in.

I love my kids and would not change anything for the world, they are my life and whole world. Even though they can lead you to drink when they do stupid shit, but I think the hardest thing you have to do as a parent is to let them grow up and make there own decision and deal with there own consequences of there actions all we can do is be there and give them the love and support that they need to get through choices good or bad, because they are our children and no one can love them like we can.

I am just starting out my kids our still young and I have a lot more experiences with them as they get older, but even now life still deals us with challenges everyday from the simple task of getting dressed to dealing with bullies at school, or refusing to finish home work, dealing with back talk that they have seen some other kid do to there parents. We just have to pick and choose what is important to teach our kids what is right and wrong ,fair or unfair, but we just have to guild them the best we can and pray that they make the right decision every time as well as assure them that no matter what we are there for them good or bad.